Stumbled across this delightful blog today while perusing wedding stuffs online. From one of her posts:
Try your hardest to not let the little things get to you. I got a little overwhelmed by everything at the reception, and I ended up in a sour mood for a while. Be determined to enjoy yourself, regardless of what went wrong or what went right.
The point is that you are getting MARRIED.
It's not about your guests, whether they absolutely loved or hat.ed the food or favors.
It's not about your bridesmaids being happy with their dress/shoes, or whether your groomsmen behaved well or not.
It doesn't matter if some kid cried during the whole ceremony, or if the flowergrl didn't even make it to the end without having a meltdown.
It's not about pleasing your parents, or your grandparents.
It's about you and your new husband, joining forces with God and becoming Husband and Wife. Simple as that.
Always keep that as your focus, and everything else will fall into place!
I like it. A lot. And I'm putting it here where I can re-read it dozens of times if necessary, between now and the Big Day.
Try your hardest to not let the little things get to you. I got a little overwhelmed by everything at the reception, and I ended up in a sour mood for a while. Be determined to enjoy yourself, regardless of what went wrong or what went right.
The point is that you are getting MARRIED.
It's not about your guests, whether they absolutely loved or hat.ed the food or favors.
It's not about your bridesmaids being happy with their dress/shoes, or whether your groomsmen behaved well or not.
It doesn't matter if some kid cried during the whole ceremony, or if the flowergrl didn't even make it to the end without having a meltdown.
It's not about pleasing your parents, or your grandparents.
It's about you and your new husband, joining forces with God and becoming Husband and Wife. Simple as that.
Always keep that as your focus, and everything else will fall into place!
I like it. A lot. And I'm putting it here where I can re-read it dozens of times if necessary, between now and the Big Day.
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